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    iceeman Posts: 17, Reputation: 2
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    #1

    Sep 8, 2008, 06:08 PM
    Ok what to do now.
    My ex recently contacted me recently after about 3 months of which we have not talked to each other.. but I'm kind of suspicious like she is going to use me or something or whatever because I saw what she posted on some other website saying this... (im feeling like I fit right in here for some reason)..

    I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in...

    I've learned that one good turn gets most of the blankets.


    I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just jackasses.


    I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.


    I've learned that whatever hits the fan will not be evenly distributed.


    I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more screwed up than you think.


    I've learned that depression is merely anger without enthusiasm.


    I've learned that it is not what you wear; it is how you take it off.


    I've learned that you can keep vomiting long after you think you're finished.


    I've learned to not sweat the petty things, and not pet the sweaty things.


    I've learned that ex's are like fungus, and keep coming back.


    I've learned age is a very high price to pay for maturity.


    I've learned that I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy it.


    I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.


    I've learned that artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.


    I've learned that 99% of the time when something isn't working in your house, one of your kids did it

    I've learned
    That there is a fine line between genius and insanity.


    I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away.


    And the real pains in the are permanent
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    wikedjuggalo Posts: 406, Reputation: 43
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    #2

    Sep 8, 2008, 06:11 PM
    Ask her what her intentions are and go from there, I don't think being friends will help but that is all on what you know and what we don't.
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    BrewCrew0981 Posts: 128, Reputation: 21
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    #3

    Sep 8, 2008, 06:38 PM
    Do what's best for YOU. That's all we can tell you. If talking to her is going to give you false hope, than don't.
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    Ash123 Posts: 1,793, Reputation: 305
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    #4

    Sep 8, 2008, 08:02 PM
    So, you've got your sense of humor back anyway. Even if not the girl... :-)
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    #5

    Sep 8, 2008, 09:38 PM
    Since you have suspicions already, I sure wouldn't leave my heart open to her. Why even consider it, if your not comfortable?
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    Ithappenstoall Posts: 363, Reputation: 37
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    #6

    Sep 9, 2008, 12:40 AM
    Just the fact that she contacted you after 3 months and you don't know how the handle it is reason enough not to deal with this. The hell with her...
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    Sep 9, 2008, 05:48 AM
    You obviously aren't ready to start talking to her again, I would keep my distance so you don't go into the situation fully open and vulnerable

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