[cutie08]

OK so I have been with my boyfriend for a little more than half a year now. We have been through so much together and done so much together we went to Florida together football games festivals movies fireworks everything I have so many amazing memories with him and he has always been such a sweet heart to me but lately I have noticed that things have started to change. He used to want to be with me all the time and he would always say how much fun he has had and laugh and smile the whole time but now it seems as though he don't laugh as much when he is with me but he does more with his friends now. And he has said that he only wants to see me at most 3 times a week and he wants all those other nights to be with his friends and drink and stuff. But when he is with them he hardly ever texts me back or answers my calls. I don't know really I've just been feeling really lonely lately, he does not send me those cute little messages like I miss you or I'm thinking about you or I love you anymore like he used to and I don't know I really miss the way that things were but when I try and bring it up to him and talk to him about it he shuts me down gets mad and tells me I'm over reacting. He was my first and I'm absolutely crazy about him. And I've been with him so much and my life has changed so much since I've been with him that I'm not sure if I where to break up with him I would even be able to function without him and all I don't know I'm so confused right now with what I should do that its crazy will someone please talk to me and help me figure out what I should do and work through these thoughts oh and one more thing he has got this band and he is always putting it before me all the time and I feel as though he cares more about that then he has about me and it just hurts deep inside when I think about that

Thanks a lot

[kourtsabort]

Well I think it is really thoughtful of you that your letting him spend time with his friends and do his band stuff, he should really appreciate that! Not a lot of girlfriends are like that. But he should also make more time for you and your needs if he wants to be in a relationship with you. Honestly, its probably not the right time for him to be in a relationship and he has other things he wants to do, so I would have to say you should find someone better. Its hard I know but you deserve better than that. And if you really want things to work out then maybe try talking to him and letting him know that you are feeling lonely lately. Guys aren't the smartest so there not going to know something's wrong unless you let them know.
So just talk to him and his response should let you know what your decision should be right then and there. If he's not willing to work it out, let him go.