[Blondey]

Im 15 since beginning of July and I've been meeting an 18 year old lad latley - 19 in November. We like each other and its going really well. Last night he drove me to the cinema and back and we just sat in his car for about 90mins just talking and getting to know each other. The only thing is, when my mom asked me who I was going with I lyed. I said my friends and that we were getting the train - which I didn't. Im too scared to tell her about him in case of what she says to me. Were not going out but were practically seeing each other. Has anyone got any ideas how I can tell her about him? Or introduce them or something? If I tell her I need to mention he drives as well. I just need help on how I can tell my mom, I don't want to keep lying to her about where I'm going, etc. thanks x

[nickshehe]

I know this isn't what you want to hear but I doubt any concerned parent would approve of this sort of relationship.. You're still young and there are lots of guys out there your age that your mom would approve of.
I know it's attractive at such a young age to have a "cool older boyfriend" with a car and facial hair but it grows old, fast. Anyway if you insist on being with him, then you could always just be honest with your mom.. she might appreciate your honesty. You can tell her that you could have kept lying to her and been with him but you didn't.. she might value that.

[talaniman]

Just tell her, or better yet, stop sneaking around, and that's something less for her to be PO'd about finding out.

That you know she will not be happy with what your doing, speaks volumes as to how great this, whatever your doing, is with this fellow.

He is old enough to know how much trouble he can be in, if this comes to light, with the right people.

[ScottGem]

If you are afraid to tell mom it indicates you are ashamed of the relationship. If you are ashamed of it, then deep down you know its not a good idea so you should cut it off right away.

[liz28]

I give you credit for having a conscience because most teens don't and will lie to their parent without any guilt. You must have a good relationship with her. Step up and just be honesty before she finds out from someone else. Remember everything that's done in the dark will come to the light. Note your mother miggt not accept you seeing this guy.

[BlakeCory]

Honesty is rewarded better than lies. It will not be easy but if he means that much to you then he should be worth the trouble.

[ScottGem]

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