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    chelocs14 Posts: 45, Reputation: 2
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    #1

    Sep 1, 2008, 07:59 AM
    OK I dumped my boyfriend
    Big mistake I am really scared he said he is sending peoploe round ma house. I can't speak to his family no more. But most of his family is my friends. What do I do?
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    Sep 1, 2008, 08:16 AM
    You mean he's threatening you? If so it doesn't sound like you made a mistake at all. Hes a baby and his ego cannot handle the fact that he's been dumped. You say your friends with his family so why can't you talk to them now?
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    chelocs14 Posts: 45, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 2, 2008, 07:24 AM
    Because my ex said if I do there will be trouble for me and my family
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    Sep 2, 2008, 10:04 AM
    Don't try to handle this on your own. Tell your dad and get the cops involve. Threats shouldn't be taken lightly. Tell your dad asap and his parents. Don't carry this burden on your shoulders alone and don't be afraid to tell your parents. They're there to help.
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    Sep 2, 2008, 10:28 AM
    De[ending on how he acts, don't hesitate to take measures. I believe you made a good decision to break it off, no one needs to be threatened. It is one thing to try and understand what happen and talk but this is a whole different story
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    Sep 2, 2008, 10:30 AM
    If you are ever threatened tell the cops. Don't risk trying to solve it yourself.

    If his family and friends are really your friends then he won't be able to stop them from being around you. If they start avoiding you then you will know where their hearts are at.

    You didn't make a mistake breaking off a relationship like this.
    If he loved you he would never threaten you.
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    Sep 2, 2008, 01:27 PM
    Buy a pocket tape recorder and keep it handy.
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    Sep 2, 2008, 02:28 PM
    Yeah that's what police are for.

    Wow, what a baby this guy must be. His ego is GONE! You are probably one of the only people to put him in his place. There is no way you should ever be with a guy like this. Ever!
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    Sep 3, 2008, 04:35 PM
    Woww sounds like you did the right thing! Well done!

    You need to cut yourself off from him, make some new friends, do stuff to take your mind odd it

    Keep smiling! :D

    Xoxox
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    Sep 6, 2008, 06:18 AM
    Do you have family, or friends for support? If it even smells bad, call the cops. Your free, so don't let him intimidate you, or use fear, to take that freedom away.
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    Sep 6, 2008, 07:55 AM
    Yeah he is trying to scare her and threats now a days threats should be taken seriously. Also, this girl is 14 and if she is talking about the same guy in her other post, he is 15. I hope she does inform her family and not try to handle this on her own.
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    Sep 6, 2008, 01:23 PM
    You are probably one of the only people to put him in his place.
    ... and in so doing,he is REALLY annoyed at you for getting to the truth

    That's where all this negative stuff is from!!

    Tell the police,& let them deal with it [as soon as possible] He'll NOT answer back
    Then!
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