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    Aug 14, 2008, 11:59 AM
    Would this be bad?
    Sup guys & girls

    Many of you know me.. LoL~ my break up was bad.. and thanks for your support!

    Anyways, I've been going to community college for English class and there was this girl who is really cute (in my opinion) who I spoke a little bit. Today was our final exam so I finished a bit early. Before I stopped writing, I took out a piece of gum, chewed on the gum and wrote a small note on the gum-paper.. I wrote "hey there~ Even though we didn't really know each other, I think you're really cute. Sure, we won't see eachother but I'd like to know you a bit more. If you have facebook, add me *insert my name*.
    Good luck on your finals -S-"

    what would she think of that? For some reason, I got a good and bad feeling =/
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:25 PM
    It could go anywhere man, women love confidence and that took some guts to do. You took a shot, now don't sweat it and worry if she accepts or not. You did your thing
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    It could go anywhere man, women love confidence and that took some guts to do. You took a shot, now don't sweat it and worry if she accepts or not. You did your thing
    Thanks rome :D

    The issue is that she's late for class so I don't know where she'd sit =/
    During the finals, she sat before me and asked me how much would the exam packet cost and such...
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:36 PM
    Have u slipped her the note already?
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:39 PM
    Confidence!, Confidence!, Confidence! You are making great strides. As a woman I think this is very cute in you and she will too :-)
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    Have u slipped her the note already?

    Well, I got up.. packed my backpack and walked slowly.. as I passed her, I slipped the tiny note on her desk xD

    Then I picked up my other papers and left
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Janmarie
    Confidence!, Confidence!, Confidence! You are making great strides. As a woman I think this is very cute in you and she will too :-)

    Thank you xD

    Although, I found her on Facebook :O

    She's a senior in high school xD
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:48 PM
    That makes it even more cuter....so innocent yet brilliant.
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    Aug 14, 2008, 12:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Janmarie
    That makes it even more cuter....so innocent yet brilliant.
    haha :D

    thank you :D

    I'm just nervous cause I don't know if she'll add me or not =/
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    Aug 14, 2008, 01:25 PM
    There's also another uncertainty I am facing..

    there is a 15 year old girl who likes me... as a relationship status even though we're just friends. I met her on a public forum (not AMHD)...
    She lives in Texas, I live in California... so another LDR

    any ideas?
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    Aug 14, 2008, 01:37 PM
    I wouldn't try the long distance thing, personally. See where it goes with the other girl =)
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    Aug 14, 2008, 02:58 PM
    Since your 19, if I remember right, just note that the age of consent in Texas is 17. There nothing wrong with being friends but a simple kiss could get you in trouble.

    Glad your over your ex, did you ever think you would be here? Not a few months ago! Hope the girl likes the note.
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    Aug 14, 2008, 08:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by liz28
    Since your 19, if I remember right, just note that the age of consent in Texas is 17. There nothing wrong with being friends but a simple kiss could get you in trouble.

    Glad your over your ex, did you ever think you would be here? Not a few months ago! Hope the girl likes the note.
    Yeh.. I'm pretty over my ex...

    it's just I don't know if the girl wants to be friends or not =/

    I still haven't gotten any confirmation from her D;
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    Aug 14, 2008, 08:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lmangileri
    I wouldn't try the long distance thing, personally. See where it goes with the other girl =)
    Well.. the girl I slipped a note may be a long distance as well cause I'm in Southern Cali and she's up north... =/
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    Aug 14, 2008, 09:25 PM
    I think you did the right thing Hj... nothing ventured nothing gained right?
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    Aug 14, 2008, 09:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by friend4u178
    I think you did thee right thing Hj.................nothing ventured nothing gained right?

    I did venture by slipping a note... but she hasn't PM on Facebook or add me =/

    Guess it didn't work out D;
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    Aug 14, 2008, 09:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hjpan
    I did venture by slipping a note... but she hasn't PM on facebook or add me =/

    Guess it didn't work out D;
    Be patient mate... she may not have yet but its only day 1
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    Aug 14, 2008, 09:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by friend4u178
    Be patient mate...............she may not have yet but its only day 1

    Thanks

    How long should I give her time xD?
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    Aug 14, 2008, 09:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hjpan
    Thanks

    How long should I give her time xD?
    Lol... not really your decision right.

    As long as it takes , if she does then great , if she doesn't so be it you gave it a try.
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    Aug 14, 2008, 10:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by friend4u178
    lol................not really your decision right.

    As long as it takes , if she does then great , if she doesn't so be it you gave it a try.
    Give her a week?

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