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    Muffin22 Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 7, 2008, 01:25 PM
    Does He Care Or What?
    I am trying to break it off with guy I have been talking to and seeing for almost 7 months, though not really steady. We have had no sexual contact (My choice) only hugged and kissed. The other day I sent him an email and told him to choose one so I would know exactly what he wanted 1. Friends w/benefits 2. lover for extra sex and passion 3.A true romantic partner that you
    Really care about and can or may love 4. A really true good
    Friend 5. A regular friend only 6. Someone to talk to and have sex when you want to. He has really been acting like he cares, but sad to say he chose #2 So I told him we should stop talking/seeing, etc. Yet the very next day when he found out that I may be very sick and at the hospital he got on line that night asking over and over what doc said why was at hospital, etc. Has done same a lot in past. Why will he not just leave me alone since he just wanted sex? I really care and he shows some signs of caring so I really do not want to let him go but I do not want to be manipulated/used either. (If that is the case) Please help with sincere advice. Thanks so much!
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Aug 7, 2008, 02:47 PM
    A guys interest has little to do with caring, if all he wants is sex. He may care and still want sex. Just don't go for anything YOUR uncomfortable with regardless of what he wants. Have fun getting to know him, without the games, and judge for yourself.

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