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whittywhitney · Aug 4, 2008, 11:44 AM

Hi... so there's this guy and he likes them cause he tells me all the time and stuff like that. I don't know him only what he tolds me :confused: cause we chat online and never meet. He says that he cuts himself cause he gets bored and all those emo stuff I like emos don't get me wrong but do you think I should go out with him? :eek:

ANB428 · Aug 4, 2008, 11:48 AM

No, I think that you should stay away from all of that. He needs help if he likes cutting himself. You should let someone who knows him know that he is cutting himself so he can get help. I would personally stear clear.

askbeccab · Aug 4, 2008, 12:41 PM

Well if your really like him yes you should but be caution alert when you meet up with him because your meeting him off line always go with him wit a friend say it's a double date and do it for the first couple dates are at least until you fell comfort being around him alone

star soaked sky · Aug 4, 2008, 12:47 PM

No! If you don't know him then don't.
No one knows if he really likes you or if he's a 90 year old looking for a younger girl!

JBeaucaire · Aug 6, 2008, 02:31 AM

Nope.

N0help4u · Aug 6, 2008, 08:58 AM

The problem with people who cut themselves is that you are always feeling responsible for what they do. It is like walking on eggshells to keep somebody with a temper from exploding. Then when you feel hopeless and want to break up you feel obligated because they will cut themselves. He needs help to overcome this before he can be well enough to even think about having a healthy relationship with anybody.

yadiexxkrazy1 · Aug 6, 2008, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by whittywhitney

hi...so theres this guy and he likes em cause he tells me all the time and stuff like that. i dont know him only what he tolds me :confused: cause we chat online and never meet. he says that he cuts himself cause he gets bored and all those emo stuff i like emos dont get me wrong but do you think i should go out with him?? :eek:

I think you should get to know this boy better.
You should probably meet up or talk on the phone.
Then afterwards if the boy is still apeeling to you then yes go ahead.

N0help4u · Aug 6, 2008, 09:47 AM

Yeah he says all the right things, what you want to hear, he likes sports, hates history class, etc...
... and you think how sweet, we have so much in common, and then you go for it and months/years later asking WHAT did I get myself into!!

whittywhitney · Mar 30, 2009, 04:58 AM

Thanks guys :)