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    kregirl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 1, 2008, 08:03 PM
    Serious orgasm issues
    I need advice.

    My situation is that I have never had an orgasm from sex... I'm around 30. I've had 7 partners. I've had good, great sex. I am dead down there. I can have an orgasm from oral, granted, it is not super quick. I can from hand manipulation, it is all hood and . I don't get it. I've had variety in my sex. I've had really hot sex. I was very into it. I just feel nothing in my vagina. Does anyone else feel that way. Even when the sex is awesome... nothing going on in there. I am at my wits end. Am I alone in this. Please do not give me advice about position or mood or expectation... check, check, check I am good on that... help
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    Aug 1, 2008, 08:19 PM
    I can't orgasm through intercourse... I think there is a bit of a mental block on it for me.

    My "g" spot is my clitoris. That's where I feel the most pleasure. Intercourse feels good and all.. but doesn't do it for me.
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    Synnen Posts: 7,927, Reputation: 2443
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    Aug 2, 2008, 10:13 AM
    MANY women never orgasm from intercourse. The nerve endings just are not there.

    Enjoy your clitoral orgasms, and enjoy the sex--just don't expect to orgasm from intercourse, because it may never happen for you.
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    Aug 2, 2008, 01:25 PM
    You aren't dead down there! You have clitoral orgasms!!

    Don't tell yourself stuff that isn't true, girl.

    Ya just got to have passion between your ears for what you're doing, not what he is doing.

    You might want to try some mental exercises in erotica to find out what REALLY turns you on. Each woman is different; each woman has different mental pictures of what really makes her hot, and those mental pictures are not what turns on a man or what someone else tells you should turn you on. Practice bringing yourself to orgasm with passionate thinking.

    It will take a while, but that is one road to finding your multiple orgasmic self. Your multiple orgasmic self is all about you.

    Best wishes in the future,
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    Aug 2, 2008, 02:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen
    MANY women never orgasm from intercourse. The nerve endings just are not there.

    Enjoy your clitoral orgasms, and enjoy the sex--just don't expect to orgasm from intercourse, because it may never happen for you.
    I agree.

    I wanted to rate your answer buy AMHD is saying I can't right now. :(

    Take care.
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