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    Feb 7, 2009, 06:41 AM

    Have you tried "telling" him that you think of him even when you aren't together? Like buying him something personal or that he really likes. Things that he would like/want but won't express; something he would realize can come only out of the mind share you give him.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 07:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Crista View Post
    Okay don't get to alarmed but I think you should check where he's been and who he's been talking to? Usually, people who cheat eliminate their guilt by suspecting their spouse of doing the very thing they are doing.
    Do your own snooping. Check his car, comp, cell and who he works with. Maybe, giving him the very medicine he's been giving you will make him realize too what it feels like not to be trusted.


    As long as the thread is going to remain open my feeling is that revenge (which this is) and getting even (same as revenge) and attempting to "teacher your partner a lesson" do not work in the long run and can very well backfire.

    Whatever happened to honest conversations?

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