[nelsta78]

Some of you will know from my post's that me and my girlfriend have been on a break for the past 3 months.

Well after the advice I was given, i.e. go out more, don't sit around putting my life on hold etc.. ect.. In wich I did all that was suggested, And it helped greatly and it also gave us more to talk about and helped us get on a lot better.

Anyway we are now after a good couple of days together, We have decieded to give it another try, And both agreed that the thing we need to work on more than anything is communication and not let little niggles build up.

As the Title states, I just want to thank each and everyone for there advice.

Thank You.

[Kevin_s]

Congrats my friend.

I would simply suggest that with this new time in the relationship, try not to hold past problems against her, and tell her that you expect the same of you. This should be a fresh start, and maybe would be best if you take things slow again, build the relationship back up to where it once was, then exceed that amount so you can have a better relationship than before.

I had problems with doing such in my current relationship when I was on a break with her but I was thinking about it, and I realized that I have no reason to hold a grudge against the woman I care about. What's done is done, and should never be spoken of again.

I would suggest that every now and then you sit down with her and ask her if there is anything bothering her in the relationship, or say that you would like to be able to express any concerns either of you may have. Be ready for anything you may have not expected.

As you have already realized, communication is key in a relationship, especially one that has had a break, a few breaks, or even a full blown break up with time in between go's.

Good luck, and make sure that you don't let these "breaks" turn into a way for either one of you to keep each other on a leash when you feel stressed out. Another break should just be a clean break-up. Makes both people's life less miserable in the long run.