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    Jul 22, 2008, 02:44 PM
    Emotional Bonding a Sign of something?
    My boyfriend and I have broken up twice. The first time was for a day, and the second was for five days. Tonight when I kissed him, we shared a major connection that made us both cry. Is this a sign? Or what is it?? I have never felt anything like it before and he said he hasn't either. He really isn't an emotional person partly due to being male, but also in part of being a Marine.

    I happen to be in the Army and he is a Marine.

    Is there any feedback you can give me as to what the whole connection was about? I felt as though we were really connected, like my body read his. I don't know what it means.

    Thank you
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    Jul 22, 2008, 03:23 PM
    Tonight? Are you still together? Broken up? Only felt the tingles this once? It might have just been a good kiss. Because that's what I feel every time I kiss my boyfriend. It's just that connection that you are supposed to feel for your true love.
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    Jul 22, 2008, 11:06 PM
    Yes, It happened last night at 2230. We are still together. We just got back together on Sunday. I can't give up on him because I love him too much. When I peck him on the lips, I never feel much. But when I french kiss him I always get tingles. This time was different. We did a closed mouth kiss that lasted more than 30 seconds and the feeling was so strong. I had never felt that before.

    When I first started dating him, I knew he was the one. Then after the first breakup I started to have my doubts. The second breakup was different too. I made him feel bad about how he treated me and he NEVER cries in front of anyone... he hasn't cried in years. He started welling up and a few tears left his eyes. Then two days later... LAST NIGHT... a stronger emotion blew over.

    I don't know if that means it was a reassurance that I was correct about him being the one or what.
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    Jul 23, 2008, 01:22 AM
    If either of you think that breaking up will fix your problems, then you both have a lot to learn about each other and yourselves. Trust me, I've been through it.

    If you feel in your heart that perhaps you are falling in love with him again, then maybe you are. Good luck to you.
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    Jul 24, 2008, 02:50 AM
    I never fell out of love with him. He just needs to work on his communication and stop jumping to the easiest thing of breaking up every time there is an issue.
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    Jul 24, 2008, 02:53 AM
    Have you told him this?Have you guys had a talk about this?
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    Jul 24, 2008, 02:45 PM
    Young love and passion is very real and very powerful. :)
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    Jul 24, 2008, 08:46 PM
    Yes... I have told him several times since we have gotten back together. He is working on it slowly.
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