[AliG]

Well I made a topic here back in the day about a girl I really liked from work. Well she has someone already and it was pretty hard to accept that but I did. But the problem is, I find it so hard to like anyone else because all I think about is her. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever met and would do anything to be with her. But she has someone and I'm going to have to live with it. But it's so hard to move on seeing her face all the time at work. She's always there and always saying hi or talking to me. I keep telling myself "you'll find your girl" but, seeing her everyday keeps drawing me in and in (lame I know). So my question is, what have you guys done to move on or be able to hang with someone who you love lol..

I mean, I don't want to ignore and pretend she doesn't exist but I feel that's the only way. I recently found out that we will also be attending the same college lol and I don't know I'm going to do if we got the same classes. Any advice besides quit that job?

[plonak]

I've known from past mistakes, that it makes it impossible to get over someone when you keep seeing them and talking to them..

That happened with me and my ex.. after I broke up with him, we stayed in contact and saw each other once a week, and then it became twice a week and so on, and before we knew it, we were right back where we started from and I pretty much took him back and he ended up burning me again, so I dumped him this Saturday and now I'm right back where I started.. lonely and heartbroken

So, I know this isn't quite your situation but my point is that you need to find a way to distance yourself.. maybe change shifts.. look for a new job.. and don't worry about her feelings, she's fine, she has a boyfriend.. it's you that you should be worrying about.. if you see her around college, just give her a quick wave and continue on.. this is really the only way to get over a love.. it's sad, but true