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    MC12545 Posts: 45, Reputation: 2
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    Jul 20, 2008, 04:37 PM
    Leaving me with some thoughts
    OK... Ive posted my situtation about me and my ex two weeks ago title" WHAT IS IT WITH THIS GIRL". This is just a recap on what being happening since my post. Nothing has changes. She still keep the lines of communication open. We spoke on the phone for 30 min last Sunday. She sounded really happy to talk to me and we where just reminiscing on what we both been up too during the week. We both didn't touch the subject about our relationship or anything, but she keeps telling me we should hang out sometime and I shouldn't be a stranger. She's being doing all the contacting and last Thursday she calls me and hangs up which I highly doubt it's a mistake because its being happening too often. Last night I went out with my friends and I got a call from her at 3:30am which really surprised me, I accidentally picked up and hung up. Its left me thinking if I should call back. I really want to talk to her but I don't know if I should. Everyone here has being telling me that her approach and intentions has being on the friendship level but last nights call at 3:30am really threw me off. I will like to get someone's opinion if she misses me or is regretting her decision on leaving me? Please help!!
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    Jul 20, 2008, 06:20 PM
    Call back to see what's up.
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    Jul 20, 2008, 06:33 PM
    She doesn't want you back, just available when she needs you. Be clear there is a difference, because that is the motive behind the actions, yet be aware of the way it makes you feel, and why its important to cut off all this contact, and move on.

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