[joannekay83]

My boyfriend has this power control issues. He says he doesn't but he does. Our relationship is new but I've known him for years. We love each other and when all is well it's the best relationship ever. When we argue all hell is loose. He won't stop. He gets hurtfull and he must have the last word. Its just I don't agree with him at times and he won't approve of that. He switches up things I've said and he knows I have bad short term memory and he'll use that to the extreme sometimes. He'll says something that I supposedly said but which is totally a lie. Either way I can't get my point across so he'd understand me. And its really frustrating. Plus he can't trust me because I lied twice and he uses that also. I lied about how I stopped working and money issues I had. He uses that to the fullest. I think he's being unfair and he can't accept the fact that he must always be right. He's very good at debating and he can make a person feel really low and stupid with his words. Help! Im getting to a point where I'm going to start throwing fits and I want to avoid that. Im going to go crazy. Please help me.

[hjpan]

One word. LEAVE.

[mrchef1110]

Trust is vital to a relationship if he doesn't trust you it will never work. Period. End of story. Like the above user said leave.

[talaniman]

Help yourself and leave.

When all is well it's the best relationship ever. When we argue all hell is loose.

Which one happens the most? If you can't handle the downside, then the upside can't be that great.