[DCFC10]

Hi agen guys.

My ex of year and I have split up for 2 months now and she tells me she likes and is happy being around this new guy she met after we had split.. we had a brilliant relationship and we loved each other so much. Told each other evryfin and so comfy around each other

She said to me she wanted to have fun and enjoy her single life and she ended it.. she then tells me about this guy she met a month ago when we had already been split up. She said she is just happy being around this guy.

Can she really be over me and ready to move on alreay after the great relationship we had? Do you think this new guy will be a serious relationship? If they give it a go and it fails, would she try coming back to me or is that me and her over for GOOD??

[nelsta78]

I know it hurts mate, but you have to start thinking about yourself.

Don't let thoughts of her and her new fella consume you.
All you can do at the moment is take it one day at a time.If that's to hard take it an hour
At a time.think of ways to kill an hour then do it again for the next hour.
Start going out with friends when you feel ready.
Treat yourself to some new clothes and get to the gym.Pretty soon you'll start to feel good about yourself and want to be going out and meeting new girls and enjoying yourself.

I know it hurts and all the above sounds easier said than done, believe me I know that.But start living your life for you.

You managed to be happy in your life before her, and in time you'll be just as happy with out her.

[talaniman]

No one can say if its serious or not, but you keep asking the same question in different ways, and that shows your still having a problem accepting that your single, so read the all 4 stickies in this forum, to get some good suggestions about letting go, and healing. The links are in my signature. Good luck.

[Applejacks83irv]

You should keep it cool with her? And be cool about it?. was the sex good?. cause I heard some people stay to together for the dtf? Thing? Or she got bored? Well? I not going to tell you? That its not the end of the world? Or there more fish in the sea? ShT like that? You got your pigz snacks and your cold pint! Wha more can you want?. helLL its just one year? Find you? One with some ah nice gummy bears? You do like gummy bears?. but yeah? Uhm? Do the same? She wants fun!and you go out and have some! Pull! A freakin! Mc loving! Baby!