[DCFC10]

Hi agen guys.

I lately spoke to my ex of a year that admitted to me that she likes some one else. Since the split we have slept with each other and been getting on really well and looked good to get back together. We were acting like a normal couple like we were.

Then the other day she admitted she liked someone else after 2months of splitting with me (now). She then stopped kissing me,cuddling,staying at mine. Now she is acting like the whole year we had wa nothing to her. We were the best couple out.. texts and voicemail and calls saying how much we loved each other and made each other happy. Now it feels like its nothing to her and when I asked about this new guy she said its different and he is the opposite and she's just happy being around this guy now. I asked if she was happier with me when we first met and she said it is a different type.. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? She said to me when I asked, she doesn't even know if she fancies him..!

I then asked if I had a chance with her and she replied by aying that I have got around a 30% chance in the far future.. HUH?? Does this kind of behaviour from a girl mean that she is just having fun with this guy or is it going to be a real good go of a relationship for them...

Id do anything to get her back because everything we had means everythin to me..

Help guys

[nelsta78]

I don't know. It could be a rebound thing.Or it could be she's having you hang around because she wants to keep you as a friend and wants you not to hate her.

But sitting around and letting the thoughts of the 2 of them fill your mind is a big no no.
I know it's easier said than done, but you need to start living your life for you.

Ask yourself how could you love somebody that treats you this way?

Don't focus on the good parts of your past relationship.There must have been times that she annoyed you so focus on them.

Focus on getting yourself together emotionally so that your next relationship with who ever it may be will be stronger and better than your last.

What ever doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

[kelsee94]

Sorry to tell yea
But that's just what girls do
It seems like she is using you as a secrecty blanket
She knows you love her enough to wait for her
She probably feels safe with someone to all back on
Don't take her dating other men so seriouslyy
If she stops interacting with you all together then you know she has moved on
What she is doing is wrong.. but I get it being a girl myself
She knows that your priceless and would regret losing you forever
Give her space... show her that you do care but you will stop if she doesn't want you
She can't have the best of both worlds.. make her choose one

[talaniman]

You should be doing what she is doing, having a good time being single. If you were, you wouldn't have time to be thinking about what she is doing would you?