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    marty100no Posts: 16, Reputation: 0
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    Jul 8, 2008, 09:50 AM
    I like this girl, we're friends I want to be her boyfriend
    There's this girl I like, we are pretty good friends but on the weekend we hooked up and now I want her to be my girlfriend but I don't know if she like me and don't want to ask her and the her say no what do I do
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    Jul 8, 2008, 09:53 AM
    The only true way to know is to ask... you've already crossed the friends line.. so what do you have to lose? Just buck up and do it! Maybe instead of asking her to be your boyfriend straight off.. ask her on a date..

    I also suggest that you communicate with her.. ask her if she was OK with what happened.. communication is key to a healthy relationship.. good luck!
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    #3

    Jul 8, 2008, 10:40 AM
    You already hooked up, might as well tell her how you feel
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    Jul 8, 2008, 11:27 PM
    OK first thing.. I'm a girl ;) and second thing.. you've already had sex.. wouldn't that be enough to make it awkward? Like I said you've got nothing to lose..

    Obviously she has a sexual attraction to you.. so you're good there.. just give it a go. And let us know how it goes
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    #5

    Jul 9, 2008, 09:05 AM
    Life is awkward. Stop resisting awkward situations, that's no way to live. Face it, face her, ask her out. You hooked up, but you still don't know anything about her. Work on DATING first, try to stay out of bed (unless you're eager to be a teenage dad), and find out if you two have anything long-term in common. You may not. Best be honest and find out.

    Either way, you man up and face her and don't avoid awkward situations.
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    Jul 9, 2008, 09:45 AM
    Get over that fear of rejection, and just ask her.
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    #7

    Jul 9, 2008, 09:58 AM
    Just letting you guys know...

    Nowadays, "hooking up" means anything from kissing to actually being in bed.

    ... learned that from my 15 year old brother.

    Ps - plonak, I can see you're a fan of "the office?"
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    plonak Posts: 742, Reputation: 117
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    #8

    Jul 9, 2008, 01:08 PM
    Heck YES!! It's only the BEST SHOW EVER! Are you?
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    Jul 9, 2008, 01:50 PM
    I am! I actually met Roy (David Denman) when I was backpacking through Amsterdam.
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    Jul 9, 2008, 01:54 PM
    OMG really? That's so awesome and random! Lol

    I would give my left arm to go to a taping to that show! Lol did you get his number?
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    Jul 9, 2008, 01:56 PM
    Haha, I'm actually a guy, so that would have been doubly awkward. Not to mention, he was in Amsterdam with his girl... shoulda gotten his girl's number though. She was cute.
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    Jul 9, 2008, 03:35 PM
    When you're 15 you can misuse the term "hookup" thinking it only means "kissing"... but that's not what it means. It means "had sex" and usually unattached sex.

    If a youngster told you he was "frenching" his girlfriend, and then told you nowadays that means "holding hands"... you'd educate them on the error, right?
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