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zach_seth · Mar 27, 2006, 02:28 AM

Hey, OK... I was with this one girl about 2 years ago but she broke up with me and we never got back together. And I started talking to her again about a month ago. I found out that she still had feelings for me and still does. But she is in a relationship right now. I have always loved her, from the first time I saw her until now. After telling her how I felt toward her she just told me that she feels the same way, but I don't believe that cause if she did then she would have broken up with her boyfriend and came back with me as soon as she found out, cause that is what I would have done. I am so in love with this girl, and it makes me feel stupid that I love someone that doesn't love me back. But she might... thats what she says but she doesn't act like it at all. I am so confused on what to do. Can someone help me out please.

DJ 'H' · Mar 27, 2006, 03:48 AM

Forget about this girl. She is probably having a few problems in her relationship and found it easy to talk to you, purely based on the attention you gave her. Lots of girls tend to get in touch with their exs when they are confused and unhappy.

She does not love you and she does not want to be with you. Delete her number and move on. She will only play games and mess with your head. She really isn't worth it.

Fr_Chuck · Mar 27, 2006, 04:55 AM

It is common to call up or try to be with your ex for a short time after a break up with someone else. They need that emotional high to get over the other person, then you will be the ex again.

If you will listen, don't fall for it

fredg · Mar 27, 2006, 05:21 AM

Hi, zach,
Thanks for asking a question here, and Welcome to the site.
"but she might", is a quote from your question. She might, and she might not. Chances are, she won't and is not in love with you.
Is this correct? You two ended knowing each other a while back. She got another boyfriend; now she doesn't want him anymore? And might want you?
Love hurts, because it sometimes doesn't work out the way we want.
The only thing you can now is try your best getting over her. Talk with other girls, talk about them, not yourself. You will have so many friends shortly that you won't know what to do with them! I do wish you the best, and good luck.

s_cianci · Mar 27, 2006, 07:41 PM

It sounds like you just need to wait around on this one and see what, if anything, comes of it. You're in love with someone who's not available right now. Perhaps she does have feelings for you and maybe is ambivalent about the guy she's now with. She may not want to break up with him due to feelings of guilt. Regardless, I wouldn't build my life around her. Move on and do the things you want to do. Meet new people. Like I said, she may eventually come around or she may not. Don't waste your life pining away for her. If it's meant to be, it will be.

talaniman · Mar 28, 2006, 01:40 PM

She says one thing but her action say just the opposite! Don't be fooled because she says what you want to hear! Move on and leave her alone! If she loved you you'd be together so don't set yourself up for the misery and pain that comes from loving someone who doesn't love you!:cool: :rolleyes:

kp2171 · Mar 28, 2006, 02:43 PM

Best case scenario - she loves you still but not enough to break it off?
Worst case scenario - she's screwing with your head because she can and she knows you want her and its an ego boost.

Really not a lot in there that will make you happy.

You're trying to cling to the maybe, possibly, perhaps she'll change her mind.

You love her like mad. Fine. Keep loving her and go out and find someone else you can love more.

There's a few billion people on this earth. I'm guessing you'll be able to find another that is just as easy to be head over heels for.

JoeCanada76 · Mar 28, 2006, 03:51 PM

Why did she break it off, if she loves you too? Does not make sense. She always knew how you felt. So how does that change? If she felt that way about you, you both would be together still from the first time? Right?

Joe

Not saying it is impossible but I think if you try figuring it out and sticking around even though she is with someone else you are going for a bad bad nightmare roller coaster ride that you will have a hard time getting out of.