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luvababe33 · Jun 26, 2008, 05:30 PM

K so I'm going into middle school (I know I'm young) but all the other girls have bfs and I feel left out when they talk about guy stuff Especially the upcoming dances . I'm not ugly (I don't think) but no guys will date me . Wats up ? HELP !:(

ChihuahuaMomma · Jun 26, 2008, 05:36 PM

A lot of guys in your age group probably still think girls have cooties. Don't date just because your friends are. Will your parents even allow you to date at your age? Just enjoy school. There will undoubtedly be new students in the middle school, make friends with other people as well.

luvababe33 · Jun 26, 2008, 05:39 PM

To chihuahauamomma; my mom told me I couldn't go anywhere unsupervised with a guy, which I have no problem with but guys just don't like me and I want to know y

ChihuahuaMomma · Jun 26, 2008, 05:42 PM

Don't take the actions and words of a few guys to mean the same for ALL guys. I've found the best way to find what you want is to stop looking for it.

So, hang out with friends, focus on school, and the right guy will show up.

Also, I'm glad to hear that you have talked about this with your mom and you are following her rules, BRAVO to you!!

luvababe33 · Jun 26, 2008, 05:43 PM

Thanks I try 2 just hang with my friends and let things fall into place but I see girls everywhere and it makes me sad sometimes but oh well

ChihuahuaMomma · Jun 26, 2008, 05:46 PM

Don't let it get to you. Look at the glass as half FULL! Think of the things THEY are missing out on that you are not because you are single.

scronklover · Jun 29, 2008, 02:26 AM

Personaly, I a can have a boyfriend, but only in school. The bad thing is, I can only go on double dates until I'm 16, in 3 years!! But I'v never had one, so it doesn't matter. Just, take it slow, and enjoy life as it is. Take it one step at time! Hope I helped!!

MOWERMAN2468 · Jun 29, 2008, 09:03 AM

Often times the other young girls that are "dating" in junior high end up with quite a nasty reputation by the time they are in tenth grade. One of my daughter's class mates has such a reputation and they are going to be in ninth grade next year. I began leading her away from the other young girl some time ago, because I had started to hearing some of the things the other girl was suppose to be doing. Even dating guys that had already graduated. Any how, my daughter is now glad she is not close friends with this other girl because she leads others into the unmoral things she is doing. There is plenty of time for dating when you are older. Be a kid now, once you are grown, the kid years are GONE.