[23women]

Im 23, done my 4 years of University, going into another year for Teachers College in September. Ive been in a relationship for a year and have just recently lost my virginity. A condom was used, of course! But because I was in a lot of pain, since it was my first time, I stopped in between, and my partner did not ejaculate. A week after I got my period, and the last day of my period (may 28 08) I had sex for the second time, and again, since I'm new at this, I couldn't take the pain for too long, and told my partner to stop, and my partner didn't ejaculate again. Now, I haven't vomited, nor do I feel tired, but my breasts feel a little sore. I had sex again for the third time, and YET again, I told my partner(bf) to stop, because it was too much for me to take, he didn't ejaculate this time either. I feel like my tummy is bigger then usual. Im paranoid that I could be pregnant. I mean, I am a responsible women, protection was used, but, I just feel like I may be an unlucky person, having to lose my virginity for the first time, with someone I really care about and having to find out Im pregnant. I don't know how soon I can take a pregnancy test? I should be getting my period next week, or the week after.

Any help would be appreciated.

[westnlas]

You could be of course, but I doubt it. It sounds like you are having some problems with this. I think you should discuss your discomfort with a doctor. I also think that you should be legally committed with a partner before having a sexual relationship with them. My opinion only. But it certainly resolves many issues prior to problematic changes in lifestyle.