[daza 4 lc]

I'm really confused
I really like this girl but she doesent even like me :(
Were the same age in the same school and she's got with my two best friends
And when I'm with them she will give them hugs and ignore me and it does my head in
She's not the best looking girl ever but there is something about her
I lie awake at night just wondering will I ever even got a chance and I've been given all the advice from forget about her wich I can't to just start talking two her and kiss her but the thing is were m8s but I don't think she knows I like her can anybody help me

Signed

A frustrated 14 year old :mad: :mad: :mad:

p.s I don't care what anybody says I know the feeling I get when she look"s at me with her deep blue eyes that you could get lost in and I have believe me I have that warm lovely :D feeling is love or the closest thing I have fealt yet

Plzzzzzzzzzzz help

Thanks

[Alty]

Honey I'm not going to tell you that what you are feeling isn't real, but I will tell you that love is a two way street, you have to tell her how you feel and hope she reciprocates those feelings, otherwise your on a dead end one way street. Time to fess up how you feel and hope for the best, if she doesn't feel the same way then move on. I know it's hard, but you can't force someone to feel the same way you day, they either do or they don't.

Good luck.

[daza 4 lc]

Look altenweg
Thanks for the advice but how do I ask her
I mean come on its not that easy
I saw an idea where he wrote this girl a song put it on cd and
Left it out side her window I'm a dj so I could mix her favourites and put how I feel intoo the song I normally do this when I'm angry"embaressed"thinking about a girl it really helps
What do you think
p.s thanks very much

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I think that's a sweet idea... try it and see what she says.

[Fr_Chuck]

It is not that you askher anything, you merely let her know how you feel,

[daza 4 lc]

Fr_chuck how do I do that

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I think your idea was a good one, but I would actually hand her the cd, or put it in her locker.

[daza 4 lc]

Look de only tyme I ever got any where with her was well its silly really but

We were at a disco and we have the same m8"s and my two friends I mentiond were slow dancing with her friends nicole and amy then it was me and her so we started 2 slow dance 2 areosmith I don't want to miss a thing then we danced together 4 de worst possible song 2 come on it came on puppy in love me heart nearly jummped out of my chest that's what made me want to be a dj that dj dj p/h he made my night well week really I was floating on air after I know it's a bit romantic but what can you do

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I hate to be rude, but can you not use netspeak, and try to use correct spelling and complete sentences. 2, mate, 4, de, and together are not words.

Just let her know how you feel. A handmade CD from the heart telling her how you feel is a great idea.

[daza 4 lc]

Yeah allright I'm just used to texting nyway tank you

But I can't walk up to her and hand it to her I wouldunt have the nerve and skools finished so I can't put it in her locker I was thinking of using one of the other fellas ideas and leave it on her window with a rose

But I don't know any advice on how to give it to her

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Perhaps have one of her friends give it to her or leave it on her doorstep..

[daza 4 lc]

I spose but this girl is to good for all that I need shock and awe

But how I have an idea I'm dj"n a teenage disco and she's going I suppose I could get on the mic ask her to come up and in front of every-one I would give her the cd

And what's a really rommantic song I can mix

[ladieedee21]

i spose but this girl is to good for all that i need shock and awe

but how i have an idea im dj"n a teenage disco and shes goin i suppose i could get on the mic ask her to come up and in front of every-one i would give her the cd

and whats a really rommantic song i can mix

Yoo.. thats a nice idea...
You know... show that you really like her... so that she could feel you.. know what your tryinq to tell her...

[daza 4 lc]

Thanks ladieedee and the way I figer it I get bonous points for doing it in front of everyone

Any other advice

[ladieedee21]

Im guessing... ask her outt..
Well dance with her... tell her how you feel...
... then you know... mayb33 izz a could time foe you to show that you really will make her happy... what type of DJ are you...
You know.. I know mix.. but what specific do you like.. hip hop.. r&b... rock...
??

[daza 4 lc]

Dance trance hardhouse rave jumpstle hardstyle dey are my speciallitys but I'm allright at rock and decent at hip hop I mc a bit as well on the mic so I'm allright but my main types would be dance really

[ladieedee21]

WERD..
That's good..
Actuallyy that's pretty cool.. because your 14 and you good at this..
The question is... whats the girls favorite taste...

[JBeaucaire]

Just being brave enough to show her your interest will set you apart from many other guys. However it turns out, doing this will make you stronger for next time, whether with her next week or the next girl you're trying to get the attention of.

Practicing ways of indicating your interest in a girl is a skill, like playing the piano. You have to practice it and the more you do it, the less it will feel awkward and the better you will get at it.

14 and in love... then there will be 15 and in love... and 16... oh, how I long for those times when "love in the air" was all I had to fret about.

Enjoy it now, while it lasts.

[daza 4 lc]

Mostly dance trance hardhouse hardtyle jumpstyle

But I've never really had a girlfriend before or kissed a girl so this whole thing is a first
I've liked girls before but not like this
Plzzzzzz help

[ladieedee21]

Sometimes when you like someone and they don't even feel that way about you... people will tell you forget about her and don't waste your time... but as you go.. you can't movee meaninq that... continueinq to still want her... im not saying waste your life over a chcik that doesn't want you.. but there are limits... and you should take the limits... wellz.. sometimes that works... sometimes... it gets the chick to realize how much you care about her and want her so much and that you didn't give up... she'll fall in love with you.. soo I say.. snice she didn't yell at you or burst out to you.. saying that she don't want you.. then give it a try... stay cooll and show that you will take care of her...