[thepurpose]

I am in CA and can't find my daughter. She is here in the San Bernardino area but mom and her guy have different names, different family members houses in different names and so on. How can I find where they are, especially my daughter??

[RedneckMama]

Is the child of the age where child support would still be required? Is there not an order in place?

Do you still retain legal rights on your daughter? If so, you could try petitioning the courts for information/help in finding her...

If you had a phone number, you could do a reverse lookup for the address...
It's hard to say what else you could try, without knowing the specifics of how much you already know about her whereabouts...
Sorry I couldn't help more...

[Gem_22205]

Is there any family names for which you can supply to begin a search for you? Previous address? Any information can at least be a start.

[JudyKayTee]

Not judging this at all but I would suggest anyone inclined to assist read the other posts before doing so -

I think this could be a dangerous situation in several ways - even the Courts are not willing to help.

Just my opinion.

[thepurpose]

Thank you Judy for saying that even the courts wouldn't even help me. This says to me that I was the cause of all of this. Not the case and I tried hard to be there. The courts here are one sided and it is for financial reasons since they have the most to gain! I never did the things she did so your judgment is void. I guess textbooks and experience proved to be wrong; since when is every situation in life predictable? I feel insulted.

A while ago, my mothers daughter replied. We have been talking ever since. My daughter and I chat every night. Tomorrow, her mom and I are going to meet and talk for a while and have come to several agreements. She also agrees that we have to talk about the past and this will take many private meetings. When you actually truly love someone, it is for life.

Today is father's Day. Today my daughter, her mother and I went to the beach and had dinner. Afterward, we went to play in the sand and waves. We had fun and laughed the entire time. After that! We all went to the parking lot and talked for about two hours. It was the greatest day in my life.

If I would have let the previous comment affect my decisions, possibly all that occurred today and the weeks before, would have been thrown away and sitting in a court room tossing money into the fire would be tomorrow's event.

[JudyKayTee]

Thank you Judy for saying that even the courts wouldn't even help me. This says to me that I was the cause of all of this. Not the case and I tried hard to be there. The courts here are one sided and it is for financial reasons since they have the most to gain! I never did the things she did so your judgment is void. I guess textbooks and experience proved to be wrong; since when is every situation in life predictable? I feel insulted.

A while ago, my mothers daughter replied. We have been talking ever since. My daughter and I chat every night. Tomorrow, her mom and I are going to meet and talk for a while and have come to several agreements. She also agrees that we have to talk about the past and this will take many private meetings. When you actually truly love someone, it is for life.

Today is father's Day. Today my daughter, her mother and I went to the beach and had dinner. Afterward, we went to play in the sand and waves. We had fun and laughed the entire time. After that! we all went to the parking lot and talked for about two hours. It was the greatest day in my life.

If I would have let the previous comment affect my decisions, possibly all that occurred today and the weeks before, would have been thrown away and sitting in a court room tossing money into the fire would be tomorrow's event.

I found your other posts very disturbing and contradictory - I'm glad it worked out for you, your "ex" and your daughter.