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    tadita83 Posts: 130, Reputation: 16
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    Jun 3, 2008, 09:05 PM
    Lookin' for the Spark
    I'm 24, I've been on one group date with this guy, and 2 individual dates. And I've talked to him on the phone several times. This guy is so nice. I can't think of one thing that I don't like about him, but I just don't feel any chemistry with him. How long should I try to find that spark before I give up and say he's not the one? Is chemistry something you always have right away or can it develop overtime. I just don't want to ditch this guy when we could have had something, and I don't want to lead him on only to hurt him later. Please help
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    Jun 3, 2008, 09:47 PM
    If you don't feel it just be honest about it.
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    Jun 3, 2008, 11:19 PM
    ... and the other side of the coin - some things just takes time. I had to keep asking a girl out 6 times before she finally "gave in". We had fun, but she was slow to warm up to me.

    Now we've been married 23 years.
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    Jun 3, 2008, 11:29 PM
    You've just said you can't think of one thing wrong with him... but you have... there's no chemistry... if you don't feel it then move on, just don't hurt his feelings
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    Jun 4, 2008, 06:38 AM
    Thanks for the advice. You've all been really helpful
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