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    Trea Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 2, 2008, 08:14 PM
    Can we get back together?
    About 3 months ago, my now ex boyfriend of the past 3 years broke up with me because he was joining the navy. I left him alone for about a month, and finally he emails me and says that we can talk if I still want too. When we met up, the first thing he said was that "we were moving on", and then I started to say some really mean things to him. He then continued on to say that he did not care about me anymore, and that he had no feelings towards me, and that since I am no longer his girlfriend, he does not have to respect me.
    Then, today, I was out having lunch with my best friend, and we finish, and then I run into my ex and one of his friends. My parents have recently decided to move overseas for work next summer, and I told him that, to which he seemed genuinley surprised.
    I was just wondering if there is any hope of us getting back together in the near future?
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    Jun 2, 2008, 09:01 PM
    • He doesn't have romantic feelings for you anymore.
    • He's moved on, both in career, location and as far as you are concerned.
    • He doesn't feel the need to respect you.

    I'm sorry, what exactly are you trying to "get back together" with? This guy isn't the guy you were dating 3 years ago. That guy is gone. You're pining after a memory.

    The "ex" you bumped into was the guy denoted by the list above. You want THAT GUY back?
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    Jun 2, 2008, 11:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JBeaucaire
    • He doesn't have romantic feelings for you anymore.
    • He's moved on, both in career, location and as far as you are concerned.
    • He doesn't feel the need to respect you.

    I'm sorry, what exactly are you trying to "get back together" with? This guy isn't the guy you were dating 3 years ago. That guy is gone. You're pining after a memory.

    The "ex" you bumped into was the guy denoted by the list above. You want THAT GUY back?

    Tried to agree with you on that one but the site wouldn't let me. I totally agree, you're chasing down a memory, he's not the guy you thought he was. Not cool that he thinks he only has to respect you when he is your girlfriend. It shouldn't matter who you are.
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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Jun 3, 2008, 05:25 AM
    Forget this loser as he is letting go of a great thing. You deserve better than to be told he doesn't care about you or doesn't respect you anymore. You really want to get back with someone who could be so heartless? Delete every possible way to contact him and start to move on with your life.

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