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    fredhtz Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 1, 2008, 06:42 AM
    Does she really care?
    Ok. She asked for the time apart. After two years she did it on the phone and she really showed no emotion. She says she has no doubt we will end up together but I don know if she means it. She also added that she is not 100 percent sure were going to get together. My question is since she reall showed no emotion, does she really care for me. My heart hurts so bad.
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    Jun 1, 2008, 04:37 PM
    Yes, she cares for you. But that's a meaningless question in this situation, sorry to remind you.

    Two years is plenty of time for her to know you. Plenty of time for you as well. Feelings aside, she's saying "enough".

    How much emotion she showed or didn't... irrelevant.
    Over the phone or in person... heartless, I admit, but also irrelevant.

    She has "no doubt you'll get together"... but "isn't 100% sure you'll get together". You're kidding, right?

    Look, I'm sorry you're hurting. She wants to break up and isn't good with words. You are trying to manipulate what she's saying into something other than the truth. She wants to break up. All the other words she says before and after that are just noise.

    She wants to break up. You don't get to say "no", and analyzing the words she used is a complete waste of more painful energy. I hope you choose not to do that much longer.

    I'm sorry for your loss.
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