Starsigns.do you believe?

srulik86 · May 30, 2008, 12:18 PM

Does anybody out there believe that star signs speak truth. Its werd co zthe last 3 girls I've been in a relationship with were Aquarius, and I'm a cancer and aparently we don't go well 2gther at all... and I rea dup on it and all the problems we're meant to have... actualy is true and they have all failed for the reasons that we are so like our signs say we are. I wonder why I only seem to get with aquarius. Any one else know about this or expeirenced this?

JBeaucaire · May 30, 2008, 05:39 PM

Relationships end because the personalities and commitment levels of the individuals involved don't match. Personalities are like fingerprints, everyone is different.

Look at families with twins and triplets and quadruplets, there are just as many stories about how they are completely differenct as there are ones describing them as emotionally identical, too. It's random.

If you CHOOSE to believe that all the girls born in a single month are bad for you, well, that makes those girls safe from the randomness you would bring into their lives. Maybe that's good for them.

Most girls I would believe are looking for a guy who is willing to take personal responsibility for his actions and character, not blame it on cosmic rays. Shouldn't you be doing the same thing?

f104 · May 30, 2008, 07:17 PM

Do not really believe I am afraid.

Fr_Chuck · May 30, 2008, 07:41 PM

Not a bit, relationships depend upon individuals and the work they will do to make it work.

People born on the same day and time will have all sorts of personalities

srulik86 · May 31, 2008, 02:38 AM

Know I agree with you all, I just wondered what people though. I ust find it werid that my last 3 relationships have all come from the same star sign, and all the same problems have occurred. As for taking responsibility, I ALWAYS take responsibility for my actions and forever sorry for the mistakes I have made. Only sometimes I made to feel that I should be perfect and I can't make mistakes (sorry, bit of venting from my last gf).

Clough · May 31, 2008, 03:02 AM

Just to add another opinion here. I don't believe in star signs at all. The first thing for me to be considered about astrology, is that it' based upon the sun going around the earth. It's bogus! Coincidences are going to happen that might make it seem that some kind of "star" thing is legit.

Now, concerning your relationships. We live and learn... Not everyone is meant to be with the person with whom we think we are. It can take lots of practice as well as shopping around to find the right person, if that is the thing after which you seek.

Hopefully, others will also be along to address your original question.

talaniman · May 31, 2008, 06:05 AM

I don't believe in it, but it couldn't hurt to try another sign, given your experiences.

JBeaucaire · May 31, 2008, 07:11 AM

Originally Posted by srulik86

i just find it weird that my last 3 relationships have all come from the same star sign, and all the same problems have occured.

Well, I should point out that in your past 3 relationship there WAS a constant that might have a LOT to do with you experiencing the same problems. And, this constant could cause you continued problems with future girls regardless of their star signs, too.

What would that constant be? Well, YOU. I'm just saying...