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junsmai · May 30, 2008, 10:59 AM

I had a great romance with my boyfriend, then I found out he was involved with someone else before we got together and during our relationship. Ultimately he choose to be with me. Now his former girlfriend revealed she was pregnant and he decided to get back with her to be a responsible father. This is killing me inside I love him so much I have accepted that he is gone. I don't know what to do from this point on , we have a phone plan together its on my name I paid it during the relationship. Should I keep the phone on? I don't want to act with anger I'm confused any advice?

RunDownLover · May 30, 2008, 11:20 AM

He has aresponablity to be a father to his new child. Even Though Your not apart of it no one says you can't be friends. Talk to Him And Just Be Honest. Don't Act In Anger. Things Would Just Be a lot tougher on you. Show Him Support And Just Be A Good Friend. :) He'll Like That You Care. Good Luck Huni.

junsmai · May 30, 2008, 11:31 AM

Thanks this is nice I will def do that

Fr_Chuck · May 30, 2008, 12:06 PM

Moving in with a women he decided not worth being with, for a child is stupid, the relationship will not work ( even if she is pregnant, since lying about it to get a man back is done all the time)

He has a obligation to be a father to the child, pay child support, visit the child and try and have joint custody.

Unless he wanted to be with her before, he is making a serous mistake

margarita_momma · May 30, 2008, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by junsmai

i had a great romance with my boyfriend, then i found out he was involved with someone else before we got together and during our relationship. ultimately he choose to be with me. now his former girlfriend revealed she was pregant and he decided to get back with her to be a responsible father. This is killing me inside i love him so much i have accepted that he is gone. i dont know what to do from this point on , we have a phone plan together its on my name i payed it during the relationship. should i keep the phone on? i dont want to act with anger im confused any advice?

Okay let me get this straight. You're boyfriend was with this other girl while you two were suppose to be together and you are happy that he "picked" you. If he really loved you, he wouldn't be screwing around with someone else while he is with you and he sure as hell wouldn't leave you for someone else regardless if he knocked them up. He could be a responsible father without getting back together with the other girl. Why would you want to keep him on your phone bill? He left you for another woman. If you want to be nice about it, which personally I would be upset, call him and let him know in __ many days you will be turning his phone line off and he needs to get a new plan. I understand that you love him but don't support him while he is with another woman. Move on with your life and find a man that will love you for you.

junsmai · May 30, 2008, 12:54 PM

Very well said thank you. I will do this .

junsmai · May 30, 2008, 12:54 PM

This is exactly what crossed my mind. Thanks so much

liz28 · May 30, 2008, 11:10 PM

I agree with the last post even though I don't think I would have been so nice by giving him a phone call and simply shut the phone off. Did he really think that when he left you he was going keep the phone for free while with his new girlfriend.

He was a player, lied to the both of your, and was sleeping with both of you. Be glad you did not catch any STD'S, and be glad that the dog is gone because most of them carry flees.

Note:In the future don't get a phone for anyone and pay for it because now you see how he was using it. If he can't afford a phone then he don't need it. My ex did this and when his ex left she ran it up to $1200, and guess who got stuck with the bill?

talaniman · May 31, 2008, 06:13 AM

he decided to get back with her to be a responsible father.

I don't think so, I think he was going back eventually to save himself from paying child support. See it for what it is, cheater getting caught with his pants down and sorry he was making you his mistress, that you can tell by his actions as if he were really a great guy, he would be a great father and with you.

Cancel that phone and get him out of your life, physically, emotionally, and financially.

He has broken your heart, your trust, and will do the same to your credit and bank account.