[deesnider]

I need some light shed on this. A quick run-down about my fiancée, she is manic bipolar, was in an abusive relationship, currently has an obsession with a married man she works with that reminds her of her deceased father. She broke up with me claiming she needed "space" she led me to believe we have a chance to get back together. On 3 occasions she has given me the engagement ring back. NOW when I ask because I moved out of her apartment she says she wants to pick up the payments. Does this mean she still wants me in her life or is she just pure evil? I've done nothing to this woman.

[liz28]

Is she meds? Do you know anything about this disorder? In case you didng manic bipolar has dramatic mood swings, then can go from happy, sad or irritable within minutes. It can also cause poor judgement, unrealistic beliefs, aggressive behavior, and denial and many others. It can also cause they to have illusions and act petty, childish, and inconsideable. Does she see an theraphyist? You need to talk time to think if you are able to deal with this things and if you are see a theraphyist to help you deal with her issues and know if you stay it going take a lot of mental ene away from you and will be a bumpy road because she can't help it because of he sickness. I believe the question should be not do she want me back but do her want her in my life and if so how to cope?

[chuff]

I'm not sure I would clasify her as pure evil, but I would say she's not relationship material.

[talaniman]

Whatever her problem, you can't help. As far as the ring goes, get it back as I doubt she will keep up with the payments so why take a chance. Hey you tried, and it didn't work, so chalk it up, and leave her alone.