[j_troubadour]

I don't know if this is the right place to post this but you were so helpful on my last question I thought I'd see what you have to say about this issue.

My Mom. I love her so much but I'm afraid of her moving back into town. She is on the other side of the country right now and I'm OK with that. Well she is coming to visit for a month and I think that she might end up moving back. The problem is well is something she wants to be and do that hasn't worked out for her but it's working out for me. She hasn't out right said it to me but I know she is jealous. We don't exactly have a great track record as far as our relationship goes. She gets along with my older sister so much better than she gets along with me. I understand why she is the way she is. She had a rough childhood but I'm worried about her coming back and seeing me doing what she wants to do as an issue. There is no hiding it from her. I don't want to hurt her. I'm also worried about her doing things that might make it hard on me. She can sometimes "freak out" a little. I just don't know what to do. I know that I'm going to have to tell certain people to kind of inform them of the situation before hand but this can get bad. And no matter what happens. Even if I'm nice and she still gets mad about something, my whole family will get mad at me.

I know I'm being kind of cryptic here if I'm being unclear let me know.
Thank you.

Scared.
-j

[Sonador101]

Well it sounds like you guys NEED to talk, when she come sit her down, and almly tell her a how you feel "i don't want to hurt you in any way BUT, there are a few things we need to discuss so please don't 'freak out' on me" that's a good way to start

[j_troubadour]

Saying the words freak out to her would make her freak out. She doesn't think that she has any issues and would be offended and hurt and would cry and get mad at me if I was honest with her. I stopped trying to just talk about things and being honest when I was like 14.