Doesn't sound like a very good relationship with your b/f, so maybe that's not a good idea at this time. I would break up with any female that spent more time with an ex than me so think about being single. You aren't ready for a relationship with any one but your ex.
you want attention from one and when you don't get it you go to the other. Commit.
I think this is true, and shows you don't have honest communication with your b/f. If you did, you would be working with him, and solving your problems, instead of meeting your needs with your ex. Why don't you just end it, if you can't talk, and resolve your issues.