[unknown624]

My boyfriend are very much in love. We actually broke up, and now are back together, and better than every before. The other day he told me he loved me very much, and was ready to have sex with me. Then he asked me if I was ready. I didn't want to mess things up, or have him get mad at me, so I said yes. And then he said it would happen in two weeks! I'm really not ready for it, and according to both our religions (christian catholic), you shouldn't have sex before marriage. How do I get out of this without him getting mad at me?:(

[Greg Quinn]

Tell him you changed your mind.

[justcurious55]

If he gets mad at you for not being ready he's not in love with you. Plain and simple. All you say, "you know what, i thought about it more, and i' actually not ready. but i'm so glad that you love me, because i know that means you'll be patient and wait for me." then he knows you're not ready and that youexpect him to be patient, bcause he should be patient.