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    LaHan Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 1, 2008, 09:56 AM
    Sexually incapatable
    My husband and I fight about sex all the time. It's either too fast, too slow, boring, not the right time, whatever. It has gotten to the point that I do not know what to do anymore. Is there such a thing as sexually incapatable? Is so, is there hope for our marriage?
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    May 1, 2008, 09:59 AM
    Well yes, but you need to explain more about what's going on. Obviously you are not happy... but too fast and too slow and too boring, etc...

    Explain what you want. Explain what he's doing "wrong". Or are you past that and really just done?

    More info needed. The more you can talk it out, the better.
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    May 1, 2008, 10:41 AM
    Sex is the worst subject in the world to argue about. Sex is the #1 conflict in ALL relationships. Counseling? Are you bored? Is he bored? Are you truly attracted to each other? There are so many questions that need to be asked. Again, find a counselor that deals with this subject. It could be something not even having to do with sex that is causing the conflict- sex is just the easiest thing to blame. Good Luck
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    May 1, 2008, 12:39 PM
    You have resentments that are carrying over into your sex life... you or both of you. What a shame!

    Time to get some couple's counselling in order to get to the root of the anger simmering under the surface. I see no hope for your sex life until you take care of this huge problem.
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    May 1, 2008, 02:25 PM
    Bravo Choux!!

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