How big should dildos be?

ladylush · May 1, 2008, 09:24 AM

Ladies.. how big are the dildos you use? Like the width of them I'm scared mine is abnormally big and loosening my vagina:S
Thanks

Synnen · May 1, 2008, 09:41 AM

Dildos should be as big as you enjoy them to be.

If you're that scared of "loosening" your vagina, do kegels.

ladylush · May 1, 2008, 10:27 AM

Originally Posted by Synnen

Dildos should be as big as you enjoy them to be.

If you're that scared of "loosening" your vagina, do kegels.

I'm scared that when it comes to having sex... my boyfriend will think I'm really loose... I just want to know how big the average vagina is but obviously we cannot do this so I need to no how wide should something be put in my vagina without hurting? It is so loose and I already do kegels
Thanks

Handyman2007 · May 1, 2008, 10:54 AM

As big as you want... and BTW , I doubt if it is "lossening" anything!! You're just getting used to it!

Choux · May 1, 2008, 12:51 PM

I know nothing about the art of dildo use, but I sure wouldn't use a large one in case the stretching reason you mentioned has merit... because from my experience, a really tight vagina is a great asset. :)

templelane · May 1, 2008, 01:18 PM

Your vagina is made of muscle therefore the more you use it the stronger (and therefore tighter) it will become. So no worries there!

If you want to increase control then when you pee, try and stop in coming out. That's the muscles you need to practice squeezing in order to tone them. You can even practice squeazing with your dildo.

Do whatever makes you happy :)
Life is too short to worry.

EDIT

The best thing you can do is just relax and enjoy. I bet all your boyfriend is thinking is, "She's naked and she's gonna have sex with me! Woohoo!"

EDIT 2

Just to show I'm not just making this up.
A few choice words about "tightness" | Scarleteen

smoothy · Jun 2, 2008, 12:46 PM

Do athletes turn into flabby bags of mussel? Nope... neither will your coochie. It's a mussel and quite flexible. Combine it with keigles and you will do things that will amaze most men.

Keep in mine babies fit through that whole. And the tightest woman I ever knew was a mother of 4 kids.

Too big is what won't fit. Enjoy yourself and don't worry. The vagina isn't a T-shirt.

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