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    PossibleM Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    May 1, 2008, 08:20 AM
    Self Esteem issues since we have been together!
    I don't know why but ever since I have gotten into a serious relationship... ok.. When he looks at other girls it brings me WAY down and I hate feeling that way how do I change?? :confused: And how often is to often for him to slip up!!
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    May 1, 2008, 09:17 AM
    It is human nature to look. It means he is healthy. It has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
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    May 1, 2008, 01:19 PM
    He is just being**rude**... none of my boyfriends did that.

    Dump him. See if he comes back begging. Then, dump him again.
    You can get a better kind of boyfriend; I'm sure of that.

    Best wishes in 2008,
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    May 1, 2008, 01:42 PM
    Well Choux, it's only being rude if your boyfriend stares.

    I don't believe that none of your boyfriends haven't ever looked before. We all do it. Like Handyman said, it's human nature. If we see an attractive person of course we are going to look/glance.

    But nothing against you personally Choux. I just disagree with your statement.

    PossibleM,

    I do believe you are dealing with some insecurity issues. Either you boost your confidence a bit, or go find a guy that stays in his parent's basement all day playing video games and NEVER gets out.

    Jealousy in a relationship can get ugly and certinaly can break up on too. Answer yourself this: What makes you beautiful/attractive? I'm sure that you will feel a lot better knowing that you are truly one of a kind.

    And hey, there are probably girls out there who would die to look like you and get all hung up if their boyfriends look at you.

    If you are that mad about it then confront your boyfriend about it.
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    May 1, 2008, 03:53 PM
    ??

    Of course, everyone sees members of the opposite sex... but *rude guys* call attention to themselves and their ogling... AND, I don't appreciate your remark calling me a liar... unlike you, I am not a liar.
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    May 1, 2008, 05:49 PM
    I'm sorry you must've read my post wrong.

    I'm not trying to insult you in any way and I did not call you a liar.

    As I said, guys who only stare/ogle are rude, but if they glance well, that is normal.

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