[broken_18]

Well I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 1/2 years now. Everything was going really good in the beginning of the relationship. He treated me really good and he actually acted like he cared about me. Like every couple, we have had our ups and downs. There was one point like two years ago where he actually liked another girl but we never broke up and he got over her. The whole 3 years that we have been together we have never broke up until last month in March. He broke up with me because supposedly he said I ditched him at school because I left with his best friend which is also my bestfriends boyfriend to an interview at another school. We were broken up for about 3 weeks then we got back together. Ever since we broke up things haven't been the same and its really starting to get to my head. Its bugging the hell out of me because he thinks he can have me on check and he thinks he can get what he wants from me. But when I tell him no he gets all pissed and gets mad at me for no reason. I know a relationship isn't suppose to be a one person thing. The two people that are in it are suppose to put the effort but he doesn't seem to be putting none. It bothers me because I love him and I don't want to let him go but I don't know what to do. I feel as if he keeps treating me the way he is I'm going to have to let him go. I know its stupid but all these problems with him made me start taking pills behind everyone's back. I need help.. I need to know what to do. Do I give him more time or do I try and talk to him or what? Please help me.. :( :confused:

[Blake11]

Well im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 1/2 years now. Everything was going really good in the beginning of the relationship. He treated me really good and he actually acted like he cared about me. Like every couple, we have had our ups and downs. There was one point like two years ago where he actually liked another girl but we never broke up and he got over her. The whole 3 years that we have been together we have never broke up until last month in March. He broke up with me because supposedly he said i ditched him at school because i left with his best friend which is also my bestfriends boyfriend to an interview at another school. We were broken up for about 3 weeks then we got back together. Ever since we broke up things havent been the same and its really starting to get to my head. Its bugging the hell out of me because he thinks he can have me on check and he thinks he can get what he wants from me. But when i tell him no he gets all pissed and gets mad at me for no reason. I know a relationship isnt suppose to be a one person thing. The two people that are in it are suppose to put the effort but he doesnt seem to be putting none. It bothers me because i love him and i dont want to let him go but i dont know what to do. I feel as if he keeps treating me the way he is im gonna have to let him go. I know its stupid but all these problems with him made me start taking pills behind everyones back. I need help.. I need to know what to do. Do i give him more time or do i try and talk to him or what?? Please help me..:( :confused:

Sometimes you have to let someone go before you really know if he/she is the one. Move on w/ your life and if it's meant to be it will happen.

You are both young and I promise that the %'s say he isn't the guy you will end up with anyway.

Good luck!
Blake

[talaniman]

You both have changed, and grown, and have had some good times together, but its time for a good break, and see what happens.