Originally Posted by
Ziebardt
Also, it's not like her to be so insensitive to shock me like that
I think if you ask most people here, you'd be surprised at what exes are capable of doing..
That being said, you sound a bit confused. At first you come off wanting to get your ex out of your head.. then I felt like you were trying to approach her again and fix things.. but then you wanted to get your ex out of your head again.
So you were right in 2 out of 3 cases. The right thing to do is get your ex out of your head.
She hurt you- I'm sorry.. I feel for you I honestly do. I don't know the nature of your relationship but I do know how it feels to have loved and lost. What you need to do is stop analyzing and thinking about what she said, what she did,what she might be doing, what she is doing. Erase her from your life. Msn/Facebook/Your telephone/your quick-dial - I don't know what.. put the pictures in the box and in the closet. Don't listen to the song you shared the night when you kissed under a beautiful sky... you catch where I'm going with this..
You aren't going to wake up tomorrow and forget her.. I haven't seen my ex in a month and a half, haven't heard her voice in a month.. she talks to me on msn but I don't reply..
I still remember how she smells and every inch of her skin- I don't want too, but I do.
But she chose to live her life without me-as did your ex. And as much as it hurts, we have to respect that decision and do what is best for us.
Your problem is that you're moving back... take small steps forward and you'll find happiness again.