[james_1234]

Me and my ex girlfreind of two years have recently broken up because she feels the distance between us is to far, basically we met at college and then when it came to university we both got places in London however she decided that it wasn't for her and moved back up to york 200 miles away, however 5 months after moving back she decided that she did not like the distance between us and even though she loved me and still wanted to be with me she felt we needed to break up.

We are both only 19 and she thinks that we should be out enjoying ourselves, but I was so happy with her and it all feels like we are just breaking up for the sake of it and rather than working on the problem ,moving on whould be easier.

It took me nearly two weeks for it to really sink in and for that time I decided not to contact her so that we chould both sort our heads out, but in that time she has found a new man and seems a lot more confidant and happy, however I am really depressed and don't want anything else but her,

We used to talk all the time and see each other every two weeks I thought that this really worked as it made us relise how much we loved each other. She used to be my rock but now it feels like I have been left on my own and I am scared and depressed all the time. There is nothing I want more than to get back together and work out our problems and let the relationship run its own natural course.

A part of me knows I need to move on and be strong but I carnt, even looking at someone else feels wrong and I don't want to imagine my life without her.

Anyone got any advice I no it sounds pathetic but I really don't no what to do. :confused: :(

[imation]

Yes its going to hurt. But there is good news, it will be better! Doesn't that make you feel good? Knowing other people have had the same thing happen and always, ALWAYS break through the other side on top?
Forget about her, go No Contact... that's strict, absolutely nothing,
No texting/calling/seeing/ looking at her myspace/facebook/whatever.
It might seem difficult now but it gets better, it actually used to make me laugh when I started to think of my ex because I couldn't help it and I realised I was being exactly how people said I would be.
You'll get over it soon, until then... keep your head up and ears open to the world.. not closed off in your corner.