[One_More_Chance]

Hi, Im not really sure where to begin. But about a week ago my boyfriend and I got in a big fight, when he came home (we live together) he asked me if I was happy, and I told him yes, well he looked at me and said he wasn't. And he didn't think I was the person he wanted to marry anymore. So we fought. And he went to bed, and I got online and checked my myspace account, this is where I screwed up big time...

I started talking to a guy on there, not looking for someone else, just someone to talk to. But ending up leaving me house late in the morning, and going to meet him at a waffle house JUST TO TALK but I late LIED to by boyfriend about it, and he found out. Now he is pissed off at me, and hurt because I lied to him. I was just so scared of losing him, so I didn't tell him. Now I wish I could take it all back.

Any ideas on how to get him to trust me again?
Thanks. :)

[450donn]

Lets see, hummm. He has already told you that he does not want to marry you? But you are insisting that this relationship is salvageable? I don't think so. I think I would first move to a different bed, then start looking for a place to live and I mean right now. Then move out as soon as possible. Lesson's learned, 1, do not move in with some one until you are married, 2, no sex until you are married.

[N0help4u]

He has told you he doesn't want to be with you but he wants to get mad at you for going and seeing somebody else AFTER he already told you he isn't happy with you?
Sounds like he wants it both ways and you with zip!
Remind him that HE is the one that was not happy initially and ask him what does he expect from you when he is not happy with you. Tell him he can't have it both ways.
What's the point in wanting him if he doesn't want you? He will only make your life miserable.