[Dearparkk]

Warning.. this is lame. Ok... so when I started dating my girlfriend, I told her that before her I had 2 oral experiences with other girls. When in actuality I hadn't had any. I am not sure why I lied about something stupid like that... but then one day we were fighting I told her I had sex with my ex but we dated in like 10th grade(we are both freshmen in college now) and never had sex or anything like that. I have tried to tell her I just said the sex thing out of anger because we were on a break and she did some stupid stuff.. She still believes I had sex with my ex and I never told her I lied about the oral stuff. Here is where I need some insight... even though I was lying... if I were to tell her that I was bull-crapping about the 2 oral things and I just said it for some stupid reason... do you think that would make her more mad or what? Basically just wondering how other girls would respond to this situation. Thanks.

[Alty]

Why are you lying to her? I think it's time to come clean, as one lie usually means another lie and so on and so on, one day you'll get caught lying. I don't know how she'll react, personally, once a person has lied to me I tend not to believe anything they say without proof.

[talaniman]

I need some insight... even though I was lying...

I strongly suggest that you take responsibility for your actions, and come clean with the truth, and stop lying. No relationship can be built on lies. So whatever happens, tell the truth. Man point of view.

[HistorianChick]

I agree with Altenweg and Tal... its time to be the man and take responsibility for your actions. One of the basic tenants of a successful relationship is trust. The other is communication.

Come clean with her... she deserves the truth.

(Just this woman's point of view)