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rempires · Apr 7, 2008, 06:54 PM

So, prom tickets at our school go on sale in like a week, and I didn't have a date yet so I decided to ask my ex-girlfriend, who I went with winter formal a few months ago as friends, and prom and winter formal as dates last year. I started a conv. And already know she wasn't going to prom, but not why. I asked her why she wasn't and she said she already had a dress but she didn't have anyone to go with. So I asked her to go with me, instead of a normal yes/no I get "i donno, i gotta think about it." I donno what that means.. I think that's a nice rejection but not quite sure, and I'd like to know if it's a actual don't know or a no. if it's a no I'd like to ask someone else but if it's a thinking about it I can wait a day or 2...

Me personally I think it's a if someone I want to ask me out does I'm going with them, else you're a back-up. Personally if I don't get a response in like 2 days I'm going to ask someone else out, but she's a good friend and I'd like NOT to get her pissed at me. If this were a guy it would mean I donno, damn girls and there confusing ways of stating everything, what's wrong with a nice yes/no?

What do you guys think?

p.s. sorry if that was harsh towards girls, I like girls don't get me wrong but sometimes they can be very confusing because your looking for the little mind games they play...

oneguyinohio · Apr 7, 2008, 07:22 PM

Ask her if she could let you know by a certain day, as a courtesy to you, because you can tell her you are hoping not to end up without a date for prom if she doesn't want to go with you. She may be hoping that someone else will ask her, but only she knows why she wanted to think about it.

blacksinz · Apr 8, 2008, 01:16 AM

Originally Posted by oneguyinohio

Ask her if she could let you know by a certain day, as a courtesy to you, because you can tell her you are hoping not to end up without a date for prom if she doesn't want to go with you. She may be hoping that someone else will ask her, but only she knows why she wanted to think about it.

Yea have to agree. Maybe she is hoping another guy would ask her. Ask her tell u by tomorrow or something. Just stay patient man.