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TY1234lovesher · Mar 27, 2008, 09:36 PM

OK I have been with the girl that I love more than anything for about 2 years not and she has always been the type to never give up on anything but she said we need to break up and live life but she also said if were meant to be then there will be an us again, I want her back so bad because I have realized so much like how much I care and love her and so on.
Do you think she will come back and if so how long?

JBeaucaire · Mar 27, 2008, 11:33 PM

We know you two very well around here. We talk about you all the time. We absolutely KNOW that you two won't be getting back together.

... unless you do, that is.

Oh, and it will be 35 days.

... unless it's longer.

... or shorter.

... or doesn't happen.

JoeCanada76 · Mar 27, 2008, 11:36 PM

I honestly believe that it is time to move on. You have to live your own life. Without it being centered to somebody else right now. Break is a break. Time to leave it be and not count on anything. Not that it is impossible but sounds like your too attached and you need to let this one go.

Buttnice · Mar 27, 2008, 11:49 PM

Sorry the hear... but I have some bad news for you... she is not coming back! I'm a girl myself and I use that line always : if we meant to be together we will be together and we just do that not to hurt the person so bad, and give him some hope... I know it's wrong but she probalaly wants you to think about her and want her back. If you guys was meant to be together she would not have told you you guys needs to break up and live life!!

The true girl is out there for you, try and forget about her , don't call her and if she calls you ignore the call, otherwise she knows she can do anything to you and you will end up heart brocken again.

Good luck

starbuck8 · Mar 27, 2008, 11:50 PM

Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

We know you two very well around here. We talk about you all the time. We absolutely KNOW that you two won't be getting back together.

...unless you do, that is.

Oh, and it will be 35 days.

...unless it's longer.

...or shorter.

...or doesn't happen.

That was the biggest laugh of my night Beaucaire! Took the words right out of my mouth.

Anyway TY?. I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting over her, but if it wasn't meant to be it just wasn't. If it was, you will find each other again and it will be better than it was before. Things DO happen for a reason, and maybe your 'reason' , or destiny isn't to be with her! Be sad for a week or so, and then move on with your life and discover your other options.

Best of luck to you!

ISneezeFunny · Mar 28, 2008, 12:00 AM

I'm sorry to hear that buddy, but we get this all the time here...

Chances are, she's breaking up with you, but letting you down slowly and giving you the hope of "we might get back together"... at this point, leave. Just live life as if you two are completely done and don't mope around. Seriously, move on. If she comes back, great... but if you ever hold onto a single idea that she MIGHT come back, you won't let go and it'll be really hard for you. Let go. Live life.

JBeaucaire · Mar 28, 2008, 01:05 AM

Originally Posted by starbuck8

Things DO happen for a reason....

That's so TRUE... unless they don't.

... I'm just saying...

starbuck8 · Mar 28, 2008, 01:16 AM

Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

That's so TRUE...unless they don't.

...I'm just saying...

Or unless they do! Oh look at the glass half full won't you? ;)

talaniman · Mar 28, 2008, 09:03 AM

Do you think she will come back and if so how long?

When a female wants a break you give it to her and move on with building a life without her. I doubt she changes her mind and the important thing is for you to accept she is gone and cope with your loss. Sorry, but time and living will heal you.