[SparklingRainfall]

OK here gose... I seriously need ppls opions and veiws to my circumstance I find myself in...
Just after my father died 7 years ago I start to have what I can only explain as contact dreams with him he would come and talk to me as if it was really happing I could feel the breath of his on my neck and I could talk freely and act freely in this dream it was as if we where really there everything was fine since this day I have been able to feel presence and even see orb like things... then came the day of the nightmares I would fall asleep and awake parallelized in the same position and room I fell asleep in and if I tried to move I would feel great pain all I could do ( in very slow motion would be to turn my head) I would feel a nasty evil presence that sacred the living daylights out of me and there would be this tall dark shadow of a man stood at some point near me not saying anything but I could feel his eyes burning into me... these dreams carried on for years and would often come to a point where I would try and stay awake as they where coming every night shortly after they would die down and something terrible would happen in my life... these dreams still come and before they do I get waring signs such as electrical things going mad around the house black orb type things everywhere I look shaking of the bed when I am going to sleep and even seeing him stood in a room close by as I go to sleep then he would come... the shaking of the bed both my mother and partner has felt and only this made them believe me ( I would not sleep alone) after years of this torment I finally I could take it anymore and plucked the courage to ask who he was and what he wanted... the reply was in a very windy whisper type voice which chilled me to the bone... I only heard the first line which was... " i am the sands of a thousand seas/suns" I blocked the rest out when I opened my eyes again I saw three of these shadow men staring down on the bed at me all talking but couldn't make out what it was... after this spell of dreams and one from my father to warn me about my mother my mother quick fell ill and died... I asked her to stop these dreams for me before she passed over and then next dream I had was waking up parallelized sat on my sofa staring at her I was in amazement and said mummy she said yes but I quickly got distressed as I couldn't move and couldn't speak to her and even though she spoke I couldn't hear her lip reading was all I knew the black shadow man was there I could feel him... was it him tricking me or was it her protecting me?. I haven't dreamt of him since but nether has my father or my mother come to me... I know that if she could she would what has happened??

I know there is such thing called sleep parylis but this doesn't not explain the out coming of these dreams or the upcoming to these dreams... I bumped into a physic and she told me he came to warn me off these things but if he is there to warn me why dose he give such a bad feeling and scare me so much I dread of his return?? I know these dreams aren't over he went away once before but he returned he always dose return I need to know what is going on!!

If this is what some would say an evil spirit is there away I can get back to talk to loved ones and blocking him from coming??

I am sorry this is so long I just want to give a fuller picture as I can thank you for perceiving with it this far and your opinion's and suggestions and warmly welcomed!!

Thank you again Lucy x

[SparklingRainfall]

I forget to mention that I try and wake myself up from these nightmares buti just can't seem to keep me eyes open when I know I am wake... (I know I am "awake" by testing if I can move normaly without feeling pain and when I am "awake" and can move again I open my eyes and everything is back to normal excpet I feel very very tired almost druged and feel like he is trying to pull me back in to the dream I have often blinked and open my eyes again and I am back in the nightmare I just can't control this and defanilty can't control the stay awake afterwards... I have suffered from what I would say normal nightmares before and can easily wake myslef up and stay awake aslong as I need thanks again for you time Lucy x

[N0help4u]

You could try getting a priest or a preacher to pray for you and on your house that it stops.
If you only felt peace I would say it could possibly be your mother and father.
Since it is shadow people, bad spirits and so forth even if your parents are involved
I would rather it never happened again. You can not trust any of these spirits.

[kandyfruitcake]

ok here gose.... i seriously need ppls opions and veiws to my circumstance i find myself in.....
just after my father died 7 years ago i start to have what i can only explain as contact dreams with him he would come and talk to me as if it was really happing i could feel the breath of his on my neck and i could talk freely and act freely in this dream it was as if we where really there everything was fine since this day i have been able to feel presence and even see orb like things.......... then came the day of the nightmares i would fall asleep and awake parallelized in the same position and room i fell asleep in and if i tried to move i would feel great pain all i could do ( in very slow motion would be to turn my head) i would feel a nasty evil presence that sacred the living daylights out of me and there would be this tall dark shadow of a man stood at some point near me not saying anything but i could feel his eyes burning into me........ these dreams carried on for years and would often come to a point where i would try and stay awake as they where coming every night shortly after they would die down and something terrible would happen in my life......... these dreams still come and before they do i get waring signs such as electrical things going mad around the house black orb type things everywhere i look shaking of the bed when i am going to sleep and even seeing him stood in a room close by as i go to sleep then he would come...... the shaking of the bed both my mother and partner has felt and only this made them believe me ( i would not sleep alone) after years of this torment i finally i could take it anymore and plucked the courage to ask who he was and what he wanted...... the reply was in a very windy whisper type voice which chilled me to the bone.... i only heard the first line which was........" i am the sands of a thousand seas/suns" i blocked the rest out when i opened my eyes again i saw three of these shadow men staring down on the bed at me all talking but couldn't make out what it was......... after this spell of dreams and one from my father to warn me about my mother my mother quick fell ill and died....... i asked her to stop these dreams for me before she passed over and then next dream i had was waking up parallelized sat on my sofa staring at her i was in amazement and said mummy she said yes but i quickly got distressed as i couldn't move and couldn't speak to her and even tho she spoke i couldnt hear her lip reading was all i knew the black shadow man was there i could feel him... was it him tricking me or was it her protecting me ???... i haven't dreamt of him since but nether has my father or my mother come to me..... i know that if she could she would what has happened????

i know there is such thing called sleep parylis but this dosent not explain the out coming of these dreams or the upcoming to these dreams..... i bumped into a physic and she told me he came to warn me off these things but if he is there to warn me why dose he give such a bad feeling and scare me so much i dread of his return??? i know these dreams aren't over he went away once before but he returned he always dose return i need to know what is going on!!!!

if this is what some would say an evil spirit is there away i can get back to talk to loved ones and blocking him from coming???

i am sorry this is so long i just want to give a fuller picture as i can thank you for perceiving with it this far and your opinion's and suggestions and warmly welcomed!!!

thank you again Lucy x

Lucy, don't try to call anyone when you have these dreams - you may be calling your parents but you are also opening a door for others to come through. Do not engage in conversation, and do not show fear, I've had this. What you do is tell the spirit man to leave, that he is not in the living world, and he needs to move on to the next plane. You are highly stressed and that amount of emotional energy leaves you fizzing like a Catherine Wheel. Somehow or other, you have got to find a way to calm yourself down, and close that door again. Hard as this is - do not concentrate on anyone who's passed over. Weird as this sounds - I found that concentrating on the image of a white candle in my mind helped. Trying to stay awake makes it worse because you don't have the strength or resources left to fight back - and it's you that has to fight back, not call others to fight back for you. I don't know about psychics because they can sometimes all say the same thing, but have you looked at attending a Spiritualist Church, to meet people there and see if that could be beneficial?

[SparklingRainfall]

Thank you, for your answers, for candyfruitcake I don't try and call on anyone while in these dreams it just so happens that I also dream of my mother and father but not at the same time as this man is in my dreams except for the last dream I had of him. But I never call on my mother or father while in these dreams. You are right with the highly stressed bit I totally agree with your answer and find it very helpful... but why dose this man or what ever it maybe do this to me is it just because I am stressed and to scare me? I will tell him to go away again and see if this dose anything thank you very much