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    wannabehappy Posts: 15, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 14, 2008, 01:56 PM
    No contact
    We broke up, some weeks later I decided no more contact. It was for few days and than he begans chat with me on net. We met, occasionaly for 2 times, first time he come to me, he wanted talk, second time it was just a wave goodbye. Yesterday we chat and I understood that he's not readdy to date with me, even if it was for give me some things and I give him some things. So I asked if he wants/need no contact and he answered "eventually". On very next second I decided that who don't wants no contact is me, so I just stopped to write him. He said goodbye, sent kisses and said good night. I didn't answered and he wrote "?"... maybe bacause it was weird I don't answer... did I act right?
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    Mar 14, 2008, 01:59 PM
    YES!! Yay for you!!
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    bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE Posts: 1,051, Reputation: 112
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    Mar 14, 2008, 02:00 PM
    There is no wrong or right way to act in said situation.

    Whatever you feel is the appropriate way to act is probably the best.

    You claim that he will eventually say no to contact so why are you initiating contact to begin with?
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    Mar 14, 2008, 02:53 PM
    Stay with no contact, and end the confusion.
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