[pnkelley]

My husband and I have been married for two years and we are desperately trying to get pregnant. I have had irregular periods since I was seventeen and I probably have a cycle maybe four or five times a year. It's hard to conceive when I'm not even ovulating for seven or eight months and I never know when my cycle is coming. My doctor has even put me on medication to bring on my cycle if it's been too long. We would love to have a baby of our own, I want to be able to look in my baby's face and see my own or notice a characteristic of my husbands. We would only adopt if there was no hope and recently I've been diagnosed with mild dysplasia which is caused my HPV. I'm praying that it doesn't escalate into cervical cancer. I just can't afford to go through surrogate mothers and things like that but I want a baby what should I do?

[topladyj]

I Don't Really Know The Answer To This But I Myself Have Been Through The Severe Dysplasia. WHICH Believe IT OR NOT IS VERY COMMON IN YOUNG WOMAN. I Went For About Two Years Of Coming Up With Abnormal Paps And When I Would Go Get My Biopsy Done Everything Would Come Back Okay. Finally About Six Months Ago I Had A Normal Pap, And Was Very Pleased. Sometimes This Can Go Away On Its Own. However, It Is Very Important You Get The Biopsys Done And Paps Done. If They Can Catch It Earlier They Might Do A Procedure Called The Leap. However If You Don't Get The Pap And Biospys Done Regularly Then It Can Develop Into Cervical Cancer Which In That Case You May Never Have Children If You Have To Get Your Uturis Taken Out. So Keep Up With That And I Would Ask Another Doctors Opinon About Getting Pregnant. Good Luck I Hope This Helps Ease Your Mind A Little. Have A Great Day.