
Originally Posted by
parkie001
I have been working on this since she passed away but everyone is wanting money to help me money that i dont have and no i havent probated the will yet but my mother changed nothing for her new husband as fate would have it she was about to devorice him before she passed away on account that he liked to hit her and stuff and i live in oklahoma
I understand but probate expenses are paid by the estate, not by you personally.
And your mother cannot simply leave nothing to her husband, no matter what the circumstances are, no mater what her intentions were. He was her husband on her date of death. I'm surprised HE hasn't forced the Will into probate.
"In most states, the surviving spouse can choose between the property left in the deceased spouse’s Will or a statutory share set by state law (usually one-third or one-half of the estate). Whether it is advantageous to elect the state’s share – generous in some states, minor in others – depends on the rules for calculating the elective share, which rules and exceptions have a remarkable number of variations between the states."
In a community property State - Oklahoma is NOT a community property State - the law is: "In a community property state, the surviving spouse already owns half of the community property at the death of the other spouse."