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    Mar 3, 2008, 03:52 PM
    He loves contact
    My boyfriend is 22, I'm 19, it my first relationship, he loves contact, he loves to be holding my hand, touching my knees when we are sat together, holding me, rubbing his hands up and down me. I told my friends and they said they would be freaked out, especially because we can be watching TV and he will rub my breasts.

    Is this abnormal like my friends are making it out to be, or are many lads like this?
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    Mar 3, 2008, 04:43 PM
    I've bin out with alad like that it dun myheadin,couldn't make acoffee in peace or smoke acig.its not abnormal he's just atouchy feely guy.if its bothering you I think you should say something to him
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    Mar 3, 2008, 05:06 PM
    Holding hands or touching your leg is not the same as rubbing your breasts, one is wanting physcial contat, feeling close, the other is wanting to move more into a sexual touching. Now nothing wrong if both of you are at that level but obviously TV is not on his mind.
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    Mar 3, 2008, 06:32 PM
    He can only do what you let him, so learn to say no sometimes as he will take it as a green light to feel more. Set your boundaries and stick to them. Make him respect you.
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    Mar 3, 2008, 10:46 PM
    Just talk to him and say not in front of my friends or make some rules about it nothing to worrie about

    It doesn't matter if its normal or not if you don't like it don't let it happen.
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    Mar 3, 2008, 11:19 PM
    I was nodding through the entire thing until I read "rubbing breasts while watching tv"

    ... some people are just touchy feely people... I am not one of them, however, I have dated girls who like to hold hands even while we're... eating. However, the groping while watching TV... is a bit awkward. If it bothers you, tell him to stop that.
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