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    mnixon07 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Mar 1, 2008, 10:33 PM
    After coming on TOO strong
    Ok, here's my problem, I've been out of the "dating game" for a while and I met the lady I college (she is about 2 years older). From day one of class she started to show interest in me. After about two or three weeks, I gathered together enough balls to ask her out. She said no because she had work, so I left it. The next class, four days later, I asked her out again but offered a few days (the only days I had free). Still no. third times the charm right? Nope. Now she doesn't talk to me much. Is this a lot cause or is there a way to salvage.

    Thanks for the help!
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    Mar 1, 2008, 10:36 PM
    She may not date younger guys. She may have a boyfriend. She may be planning to become a nun.

    I say move on and go out with other girls. Forget this one, at least for now. If the opportunity arises to exchange pleasantries with her, do so. If not, she's just not into you.
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    Mar 1, 2008, 11:21 PM
    I agree no point in try 4. Leave it alone.
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    Mar 1, 2008, 11:39 PM
    ... I'm surprised you tried three times. Usually, I stop trying after the 2nd time.

    Try for the 4th one, and you're asking for a restraining order.
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    #5

    Mar 2, 2008, 04:14 PM
    Uhm... dude take your shoes and run... lol...

    If a girl say no.. that mean no... and there no reason for it.. and you can't find the reason.. b.c there so many out there... bf... dont have time... family not allow... you younger than her... ect...
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    Mar 2, 2008, 04:36 PM
    Yep Often when you 'chase' after a girl too much and they really have no interest they can see it as a sign of being needy, whiny and clingy.
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    Mar 2, 2008, 04:47 PM
    yup just like nohelp4u said... if you too needy to them... you scared them off.. try to make them com to you ^^ do nothing.. ^^

    lol... same thing goes wit girls... if they keep asking you out and you don't feel the same way... would you still talk to them and not runnign away ?^^

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