Hayy,
My name is Teresa. I am 14 years old. I know how you feel. I've been through it, not with my boyfriend but with my mom. Just remember this *
Alcoholism is NOT a choice. It's a desease.* It's very dangerous. And looking at what your going through right now... I know you know.My mom use to drink heavily. Before she stopped drinking, she was the WORST person I could ever be around. Her and my dad both. My mom use to drink till she past out. Use to get so drunk she didn't even know who me and my sister were, we had to show her pictures and tell her stories get videos out and everything. She was horrible. She would fight and curse. In the middle of the night I would hear my mom and Dad fighting. I would never get enough sleep, I'd stay up and cry... for hours even when they were asleep. I hated my life. But there is help. There are plenty of ways to get your Boyfriend some help. And you will deffinately like the outcome afterwards. My mom got in touch with the local AA(Alcoholics Anonymous) Intergroup(your boyfriend can do the same), stayed there for 30 days(month or so) and then came home. I saw a total different side of my mom. She actually hugged me like she meant it. I got an awesome relationship with her and she was continuously going to meetings to share and listen to what people had to say. Honestly, I never understood the meetings when I was little because goodness me I was only 6 and my sister was 9. but, we met people who cared about us, as much as helped my mom. My mom has celebrated 7 years of sobriety. I promise you that when you go to the local AA Intergroup you will find help. Ask for pamplets and set them around the house where your Boyfriend can see them.
There is also meetings for girlfriends or family members of a alcoholic. They are Al-Anon meetings. They have helped me and A lot of people I know. So I know for sure that it can help you.
Your boyfriend may think It's not a big deal but it really is. He may not realize it now but it is. Alcoholism is a serious disease.
If you need anything or have ANY questions, you can contact me from my E-Mail address
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That is also my AIM too.
I'm here for you anytime. God Bless.