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    Feb 25, 2008, 01:01 PM
    How to get an orgasm
    I have been sexually active for a few years now and have tried many different possistions and have been with five different guys.. when I have sex it feels good I just never have an orgasm and I have no idea what I should do to help. Some people say if you touch yourself during sex that will help a lot but that has not done anything for me. Other friends say that if I really care about the guy it will come easy, I am with someone I really care about yet still have not had one. Is there some kind of cream to help get one or any other things I could do to get an orgasm?
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    Mar 3, 2008, 06:12 PM
    A lot of women don't have orgasms or can't have them
    I've not had 1 for years because I had an accident but before that I found if I had socks on and myfeet were warm I could have 1 sounds daft I no but it worked for me plus I found if you feel cumfertable with the person your with just let yourself go don't be thinking about it.or why don't you ask your partner to help you relax. Try typin in orgasms on in wikipedia or Google or how can I orgasm it mite help you get sum ideas hope it works for you
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    Mar 3, 2008, 09:40 PM
    It seems to be difficult for females and many will have orgasms easier with masturbation, oral stimulation and then vaginally in that order. Often, if birth control isn't certain, it can affect the ability to orgasm.

    The best thing you can do it tell your partner what feels good.

    I'll tell some stories: A partner orgasmed almost immediately when I licked her feet. Another, eventually orgasmed every time I said "Come for me" without any stimulation.

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