[nishantmt]

I had been engaged last month and we had great time when together. The problem is that she lives quiet far and now she had gone back . We are in serious love and there are almost six months in our marriage. I don't know wats the matter with me not able to concentrate on my work and nothing else, get emotional for time being and not able to help myself
Same feelings are prevailing there too.
If anyone has something to advice or share please be generous.

[HistorianChick]

Can you give us some more info about this?

Why did she decide to go back home?
Are you still planning your wedding or was it called off?
If it was called off, what were the reasons given?
How old are the two of you?

Its not really "normal" to say "I was engaged last month and now we're not" without a reason.

Please fill in some of these blanks and we'll try and help! :)

[nishantmt]

Actually we were engaged last month and marriage will take place in August for sure
Also we are both 23 yrs old

[HistorianChick]

Oh Darlin, you're just missing her!

That is perfectly normal in a long distance relationship... and the adage is true, Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I'm sure you talk to her quite a bit after work and whenever you can. Can you instant messenger her during the day? I know some companies frown upon instant messenger, so that may not be an option.

One thing that you may want to do is to start a journal. Write down the things that you're feeling, how you are missing her, what you miss about her, etc. This may help you and it will also be a sentimental remembrance years down the line when you tell your kids how much in love with their Mother you are.

You're going to be OK. Its such a sweet thing that you're missing her so much you can't concentrate on your work. But look at your work as a means to an end - you're working to provide her with that beautiful home that you'll have in six short months! :)

Keep your chin up... you'll be OK. :)

[nishantmt]

But dear seriously I have no control over myself
I'm trying to seek my senses but they all ditching me
I have no other option to get her off my mind which I'm not able to

[talaniman]

Be a good time to find something else to do, besides go crazy. Most men have things they like, and you did to, before she came along. Go back to it, or find something new.